The Real Reason You Procrastinate (It’s Not Laziness — It’s Your Emotions)
That familiar urge to put things off – we've all felt it. Whether it was studying for exams back in school or tackling a big project today, the pull to delay can be strong. It might surprise you to learn just how common this is. Research suggests that around 50% of college students struggle with chronic procrastination, and a vast majority, somewhere between 80% and 95%, put things off occasionally. Even among adults, a significant portion, roughly 15-25%, find themselves regularly caught in this cycle.
But procrastination isn't just widespread; it's also widely misunderstood. The most common misconception? That people who procrastinate are simply lazy. Psychologists argue this isn't the case at all. It's not usually about a lack of effort or poor time management skills. Instead, procrastination often stems from how we handle our emotions.
What Procrastination Really Means
Let's be clear: delaying a task isn't always procrastination. Sometimes, life genuinely interrupts us – an urgent situation arises, or someone needs our immediate help. That's just postponement. Procrastination is different. It's choosing to delay a task, especially one we intend to complete, without a good reason.
Think about it: you know you need to clean the apartment this weekend, or you promised yourself you'd prepare for that important presentation well in advance. You understand the task is important, and you're aware of the potential downsides of not doing it. Yet, you find yourself drifting towards distractions – scrolling through social media, suddenly finding other 'urgent' small tasks, or getting lost researching something completely unrelated and unnecessary. If you recognize this pattern – knowing you should act but actively choosing trivial activities instead – that's procrastination in action. It's not about lacking information or resources; it's an internal decision to delay, often fueled by inventing reasons to do so. Procrastinators aren't idle; they are often busy doing other, less important things.
Why Do We Fall Into the Trap? The Emotional Core
So, if it's not laziness, what drives this behaviour? Research points strongly towards our emotions. We tend to procrastinate on tasks we find unpleasant. This could range from tasks that are simply boring or tedious to those that feel overwhelming, stir up anxiety, or make us feel inadequate.
When viewed through the lens of emotion regulation, procrastination isn't about avoiding the work itself, but rather avoiding the negative feelings associated with that work. Putting the task off provides immediate, albeit temporary, relief from those uncomfortable emotions. It's a quick fix for a bad mood. The danger lies in the reinforcement: escape the unpleasantness once, feel better momentarily, and you're more likely to do it again. This cycle can easily become a habit, a go-to coping mechanism for dealing with challenging tasks and the feelings they evoke, especially if managing stress or negative emotions is already difficult. This is a form of negative reinforcement that strengthens the procrastination habit.
The Hidden Costs: More Than Just Lost Time
The consequences of chronic procrastination extend beyond missed deadlines and reduced productivity. It can strain relationships, lead to missed opportunities, and create a persistent feeling of falling short. But recent studies reveal even more concerning links – impacts on our health.
Chronic procrastination is often correlated with higher levels of stress, anxiety, and depression. It can even impact our physical well-being, potentially weakening the immune system. If procrastination generates significant stress and encourages unhealthy habits (like poor sleep or diet choices related to avoidance), it's logical that it could affect our physical health.
Specifically, research led by Fuschia Sirois, a professor in Psychology, has highlighted a concerning connection to heart health. Her work found that individuals scoring higher on measures of chronic procrastination showed a greater likelihood of experiencing hypertension and cardiovascular disease. After accounting for other contributing factors, each one-point increase on the procrastination scale was linked to a startling 63% increase in the odds of reporting heart problems. This suggests that what we often dismiss as a time management issue can have direct, serious consequences for our physical health, particularly our hearts.
Finding a Way Out: The Power of Self-Compassion
Given that procrastination is fundamentally tied to managing difficult emotions, the most effective solutions also lie in the emotional realm. Counterintuitively, research suggests that beating yourself up isn't the answer. Instead, practices like self-compassion, understanding, and self-forgiveness appear most effective.
It might sound too soft, especially when our instinct is often to "crack the whip" and force ourselves (or others) into action. We might think someone needs a harsh talking-to: "Stop being lazy and get on with it!" However, studies, including further work by Professor Sirois, indicate this approach can backfire. For instance, students who were encouraged to forgive themselves for procrastinating on studying actually procrastinated less on subsequent tasks.
Self-compassion helps break the cycle. It allows you to acknowledge the difficulty and your struggle without adding layers of self-criticism. It's about saying, "Yes, this task feels hard right now, and I'm struggling. That's okay; others find challenges too. It doesn't mean I'm flawed, just that I need to approach this." Being harsh and critical towards yourself for procrastinating often fuels the negative emotions you were trying to avoid in the first place, making you more likely to procrastinate again. Cultivating a kinder, more understanding attitude towards your own struggles can provide the emotional stability needed to face challenging tasks rather than flee from them.
References:
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Sirois, F. M. (2015). Is procrastination a vulnerability factor for hypertension and cardiovascular disease? Testing an extension of the procrastination–health model. Journal of Behavioral Medicine, 38(3), 578–589.
This study specifically investigates the link between chronic procrastination and cardiovascular health issues. It provides the empirical basis for the connection mentioned in the article, including the finding that higher procrastination scores significantly increase the odds of reporting hypertension or cardiovascular disease (details typically found in the Results section, around page 584-585). -
Sirois, F. M. (2014). Procrastination and stress: Exploring the role of self-compassion. Self and Identity, 13(2), 128–145.
This paper explores how self-compassion relates to procrastination and stress. It supports the article's argument that self-compassion can act as a buffer against the negative effects of procrastination, suggesting it's a key factor in managing the stress associated with delaying tasks and potentially reducing future procrastination (key arguments found in the Abstract and Discussion sections). -
Pychyl, T. A., & Sirois, F. M. (2016). Procrastination, Emotion Regulation, and Well-Being. In F. M. Sirois & T. A. Pychyl (Eds.), Procrastination, health, and well-being (pp. 163–188). Academic Press.
This book chapter delves into the core idea presented in the article: procrastination as a problem of emotion regulation rather than just poor time management. It explains how avoiding negative feelings drives procrastination and impacts overall well-being, providing a theoretical foundation for understanding the psychological mechanisms discussed.